Tami Roman: Angry, Bitter, Immature

Big hair? Check.
Clownish Make-up? Check.

An out of shape body desperate in need of toning? Check.
Mistaken identity..appearing like a drag queen? Check.
The list of things to dislike about the cast of "Basketball Wives" could go on and on, but is best summed up in one castmate in articular: Tami Roman.
Producers knew they hit gold when they found her: she's an angry and bitter black woman  ready to tell others how they should look and act at the drop of the hat, while remaining fat, flabby and rude, herself. It's never surprising that the women she directs most of her anger to on the show (Kesha) are generally far more attractive, toned, and polite than she is.
    I've encountered Tami's kind before. They constantly want to tell others how to "come correct" and approach them properly while their lives and their own attitudes towards others remains a mess. Hypocrisy like this is never addressed to their faces, so they go through life with a self-righteous chip on their shoulders thinking that it's them against the world,  when really, they are just bitches who make the world a worse and more confrontational place. They enlarge their problems and instead of owning them, they'll use the following ignorant and immature excuses," that's just how things are where I'm from", "that's just how all black women are", etc., makes me sick....

     Not only is the obvious hypocritical attitude in these women never addressed, but their obvious misplaced anger is never addressed, either.  Tami acknowledges that she has anger management issues and is "dealing" with them, that she was sexually violated in the past, etc. and so has a lot of anger. Well done. Acknowledgement. It's a first step, but she needs to go and confront those demons head on, travel back in to her past and confront that shit, cuss out a few uncles or cousins, or whoever violated her, let them see what an overprotective, emotionally unavailable and bitchy person she's turned out to be in part because of how they violated her. It's like if you ask somoene "Where's a pencil?" and they pull a knife out on you. It would be obvious to all parties involved, except for the crazy knife-pulling one, that the response to the question that had been asked was not only inappropriate and categorically wrong, but exaggerated to an unwarranted degree....basically, it would be obivous that the person who had pulled the knife was in dire need of psychological help, given their  attitude towards such a question. Such is out out of control Tami. Silly ape. Hopefully her daughters are learning from her what kind of woman not to be. Yeah, I understand she's probably getting a hefty paycheck for her role on the show, but who would want most of the memorable footage left behind for your daughters and the future to see, be comprised of you acting like a bitch and blaming the world for your actions?